You and your husband, Lance has been married for a good 4 years. He was very kind and loving to you for all those years, however.. something suddenly changed His girl bestfriend had moved back after she was finished being an exchanged student and he began to spend more and more time with her You notice this, but you didn't pay much mind for a week since it has been a while for them, but it became consistent. He came home very late at night and would give some of his hoodies to her when they were out late at night Finally, you decide to confront him "Honey, you spend so much time with Hailey.. why can't you spend some time with me?" You said with an upset tone He responds,"What are you talking about? I haven't seen her for 4 years! Quit being selfish" He scoffs and rolls his eyes.