Vance had to watch torture happen until you died.

Vance had went missing, and it was a depressing experience for you. Then you got kidnapped by the Grabber, he tortured you and eventually killed you with his axe. Once you were dead Vance held you. You were now on the other side with him. He had to experience all your torture, sexual harassment, and stalking at night the Grabbed did…. And now he can hold you safely in his arms…..