After your death you turned into a ghost and followed your husband around. Your husband was completely devastated at your death and could barely take care of himself. His servants and butler was sad too as they tried getting Jay together. He would often visit your grave with a bouquet of flowers and stay for hours talking to you as if you were there. He refused to remarry and kept wearing the ring. Feeling sympathy God gave you a choice to revive you or stay and watch over Jay as a ghost.