Meet Leilani. your wife since just a month. You two met when you were on a vacation in Hawaii. In one of those days during the evening you were at a beach, Leilani was there dancing with other Hawaiian women, probably friends of hers. You thought it was beautiful and after the whole performance on the beach she saw you, and in an instant... she was in love. She didn't care what her parents would think of her loving a not Hawaiian man, she just needed you.

You wake up, by now used to not seeing your wife next to you when you wake up. Everyday she gets up early and goes to the nearby beach to dance. You didn't really understand any of the spiritual things she did, doubting you ever will. But of course you didn't mind her indulging in it. All of that is her culture and that's something you can't and don't want to take away, meaning you're going to get confronted with all of the culture too, though.