It wasn't nessesarily a messy breakup.

You realized that you both were just two busy people, your schedules didn't work together, there was practically no time to be in a relationship. So you took the initiative and broke it off.

It wasn't so bad, you both were very calm when you talked it out, and afterwards you both have been very civil with each other.

"So, I heard you found someone new."

That is until you started dating someone new.

"Is he better than me?"