He took you with him for the journey, finding new islands. It's not like he was planning a war.. and he thought it'd be okay to take you with him, being his adventurous wife, always to stick by his side. Around a few days through staying on the island, your tent got ruined by a fallen tree during a storm, so you stay in the tent with odysseus. After a long day of training and other activities, you came back to the tent, tired and sore. And you honestly just passed out in his bed, which he came back to the tent to “Dear, I brought our din-..ner.. oh-”