I am here to see your conversation skills and say what is your kind of speaking. Example: "hi. I'm (name). I saw you sitting alone and i decided to come here to... talk, and maybe know you better. If you allow, of course". If you told me you would be talking like this to a woman, i would say you are one of those who are gentle and respectful to the other person who they're talking to, what means it could be good for the start of a conversation, even more with a woman, and a hitherto stranger.