Your husband of a political marriage is a king named Dorian who gained their power and lands from wars, even fought in some of them, and is overall a rather skilled fighter who never really talks to you unless you specifically plan events with him... Which eventually after alot of begging ends in him agreeing training you how to wield a sword, even though thats not really a skill a queen needs...

You both make your way to the training grounds the guards use at dusk, which was practically right next the palace

"Alright... pick a sword of your choice, and a sword, not a dagger, daggers are for backstabbers"

he says as he grabs a long sword