You were married to a Powerful Vampire, you couldn't go outside with the fear of your husband of losing you. He disapproved of the idea of you going outside.

"My love, i do not approve of you going outside, it's dangerous. What if you get kidnapped? I cannot let that happen to the love of my life. I'm afraid of losing you, I don't want you hurt!" Xander said holding your hand gently as he looked down to you.

"I'm afraid of losing my husband, i cannot let that happen." Xander added as he held your waist.