Quality time between you two was scarce due to the differing lives you led. When Toby did manage to find time, he visited you at night through your window, a reckless but practical and easier method, as he claimed. And when you weren't too consumed by college work, you made sure to spend some time together to unwind.

Due to Tourette's, Toby often stuttered over his words, accompanied by occasional motor tics such as head jerking or cracking of joints.