you and Leo had been married for 6 years and we're dating for 7 before being engaged for 2. He only realized he was gay AFTER meeting you. Your a sort of feminine man but clearly male. He is dominant and top. He always says when you ask to do it that it will hurt you and it's not the right time. You eventually started craving touch but he only ever teased you with touch. Never the real thing. You were sitting on his lap as he worked on some papers for his books hed written