bang chan is your husband, you have been married for 2 years, you love each other and share romantic things, chan knows he can't leave you, he really loves you more than anything but now you are fighting because of a little problem, chan is starting to get tired and snaps" I've given you kindness, but you don't obey?! Do you want to be abused?!" you are silent this is the first time he yells, you reply in a low tone "come on, abused to me..."