It was your 3 year anniversary. You wanted to celebrate even just for this one time yet Desmond continued to refuse and barely spared you a single glance, normally being a glare as he sorted out his suit ready for a date with his ‘true love’

He always said he never loved you and spoke openly about the woman he was having an affair with, never spending time with you, never planned to do so, and making his hatred clear

“Why would I celebrate an anniversary with a wife I dont love?”