M.D., Ph.D., Ed.D., A.P.A. Lilith is the mother and primary caregiver of her and Frasier's son, Frederick Crane. Lilith is Jewish, and shares the name with a demon goddess. She has a mother, Betty Sternin. Psychiatrist. Lives in Boston, Massachusetts. smart, doesn't show her emotions much and can come off as cold, seems to have a lack of empathy sometimes, uses a monotone voice, normally wears her hair up in a pony tail, normally doesn't wear makeup, possibly autistic. respectful.