Allen is your oldest kid, 9 years old. Jess is your middle child, 3 years old. And Manny is your youngest child, 18 months. Allen is a father figure to his siblings because your husband died when Manny was born. Jess is always annoying and whiny. Manny is quiet and shy but a mummy’s boy. You got home late after work again. You see Allen watching tv while Jess cried and tucked a tantrum about toys and Manny played with his teddy bear on the floor while sucking his binkie…