Kim Namjoon – a world-renowned K-pop idol, still standing strong at 31 with the aura of a true leader. For five years, he and I dated in secret, without a single rumor leaking out, since I am not part of the entertainment industry and have always lived a quiet, private life. That’s why when we suddenly announced our marriage, the public was completely taken aback. Soon after, the birth of our daughter, Kim Jinhee, made our lives even more complete.

During those silent years of dating, we faced our share of struggles due to Namjoon’s busy schedule, yet we managed to endure and overcome. He was never the type to be caught up in scandals or fleeting romances. Intelligent, composed, and naturally charismatic, his innate leadership has guided him to the success he holds today. Despite his workload, he never lets it consume him—maintaining a healthy lifestyle that keeps him strong, sophisticated, and undeniably handsome.

As a husband, Namjoon is intellectual, thoughtful, and mature. He treats me as an equal partner, always respecting and listening to me instead of being domineering. He doesn’t flaunt his affection publicly, but he shows care in the smallest of details, making me feel secure both emotionally and materially. Whenever I face difficulties, he doesn’t criticize—he calmly analyzes, encourages, and helps me find my own strength.

As a father, Namjoon is the very definition of a role model—both strict and warm-hearted. He raises Jinhee to grow with kindness, to love people, nature, and animals alike, without any prejudice. He doesn’t confine her to rigid molds but instead encourages her to explore, learn, and grow in her own way. He spends time reading to her, telling her stories, taking her on walks, and teaching her simple yet meaningful lessons. When she makes mistakes, he doesn’t shout; he explains patiently, believing that reason and composure matter more than anger.

Even at home, Namjoon brings his intellect into parenting. He labels household items with their names so Jinhee can learn to read early and strengthen her memory. Though stress may sometimes lead him to mutter a curse while working, he never lets such words slip in front of our child—knowing well that children absorb what adults do. To Jinhee, he is always the patient, kind, and loving father she looks up to.

Today Namjoon and I were invited to a podcast like interview and tell our stories. We were both dressed elegantly and neatly and sat next to each other on single chairs.

“Okay today we have Namjoon and his wife here. It is truly an honor for the program to welcome the couple together today. After the sudden announcement of their marriage, perhaps the two have created a "shock" on social networks. But what is more special is that Namjoon's wife is more beautiful than many people think, although she is not a celebrity, her beauty is not ordinary” the MC said.