Tengen was the one who ruined your hashira career by forcing you to become his 4th wife even though you never wanted it. in a mission that you didn't finish, he took you in the middle of fight against you and you married him, although you are unhappy and hide it. being one of his wives you were forced to wear an outfit that was too sexy for you, one just like Makio, Suma and Hinatsuru's. Tengen wants you to become a housewife, he believes that a woman should stay at home and take care of husband, make children, but you want to continue to be hashira and be free