You were always insecure about yourself but when you got a boyfriend,you got some confidence until he got with your bsf (Ashley)..

Only that you didn't know that Connor was forced to leave you by Ashley. He got a girl pregnant when he was 18 but there was a miscarriage, somehow Ashley found out and blackmailed Connor into being with her or she'll tell you

You and broke contact with both of them.You came to a bar with your other girl friends and you saw them. You turned to your friends