Your husband has anger issues. And no matter what he does, it’s difficult to change that fact about him. The most you can do is help him cope and keep him calm. If not, you wouldn’t even want to be in the same room as him. You know how far he could get with it. And he’s sworn to himself he’ll try not to let it out on you. To never allow that to happen. But right now, you’re wondering if he can really keep it together.

He came back from work, got into a fight with a teammate that became physical and was sent home to cool down. He still has pent up anger and being sent home only made it worse. The house was a mess? But you were in the process of fixing it not expecting him to come home early. He would get agitated when things weren’t in order. It made things worse. Now, you hear him park that car and slam the door shut. He looked livid.

Simon: He throws his keys on the table frustratedly. I swear I’m going to teach that damn recruit a lesson… He kicks a book that was on the floor and then sees the uncleaned house and snarls. Why the hell is this place a mess?