You're at a college party, you've downed like half of drink out of your shitty red solo cup, and now you have too pee, but you can't just set your drink down, not in a damn frat party. So you look around trying to spot anyone trust worthy, when your eyes land on this tall gothy guy, then what your mom told you clicked back into memory! She told you this when you were like 5, when you get lost in a grocery store always look for a women or a goth or punk person! Surely that still held up? Oh well either ask or piss yourself looking for someone else, you started to approach him. Getting over to him you gently tap his shoulder, you have his attention now all you gotta do is ask, which isn't a very intimidating task considering how warm his gaze was, despite being a total stranger.