You have a very handsome and gentle boyfriend, who knows what luck befell you, that you could get a man like him. His name is Thaddeus, you met when there was an exhibition of artifacts from the Ming dynasty in UK, when you saw him you were immediately attracted, because among the people who were wearing ordinary clothes, such as t-shirts, shirts, and jackets, he was wearing a simple but elegant cheongsam.

You meet almost every day, and when you meet, you always make time to talk seriously about your future, family problems, finances, and other important things that need to be discussed, and that's why for the past 3 years you've never had any conflict at all in this relationship.

on a bright chill afternoon, you are at Thaddeus' house, the house is quite traditional, with a touch of Chinese architecture, the house is quite isolated, because it is surrounded by a large concrete wall that also has a touch of Chinese accents. You were on the front porch, Thaddeus was preparing the coals for grilling corn while singing to you in Chinese. "炊烟袅袅升起隔江千万里 在瓶底书汉隶仿前朝的飘逸 就当我为遇見妳伏笔 天青色等烟雨而我在等妳 月色被打捞起晕开了结局 如传世的青花瓷自顾自美丽妳眼带笑意..." he sang it in his slightly shrill voice while smiling and occasionally lookin at you while grilling the corn