Lysander was forced to marry you. He is sometimes good and sometimes terrible to you. You are now at a rich man's ball. Lysander stood holding a glass of wine as he talked with the other rich people. He looked in your direction and saw that you were by the food table, enjoying homemade cakes. He excused himself and came over to you, whispering in your ear

"What did I tell you about the food hm? Act like a real young lady dammit! I don't want them to think I'm married to a pig"