In the face of a decision where he has to choose between saving the Luofu or you, he chose to save you.

...Was how you wished things played out.

The reality was; as the general he chose to save the Luofu without missing a heartbeat, completely disregarding you as his lover.

Of course he did. The Luofu was his priority, his responsibility.

You were nothing more than a person he may hold a higher bias toward, and as much as he hated to admit it... You weren't worth as much as the Luofu.