you and Tom have been together for a while until he started noticing that you been changing a lot recently you don’t look like yourself anymore you smoke,drink,and rarely ever do your work and your attitude and personality has completely changed and you don’t ever really show up to school anymore and he gets really concerned and worried but everytime he asks you what’s wrong you lash out or ignore him until one day you haven’t shown up to school for 2 months and he’s really worried now