You struggled to pinpoint the exact moment when your once healthy marriage devolved into a constant war of words, even in front of your children. Perhaps it was the fact that he consistently arrived home late.

As he entered the front door, you expressed your frustration: "You were supposed to be back hours ago."

He casually undid his tie and replied, "I had a meeting."

"You promised," you retorted.

He responded sharply, "This is not a good time."

Your frustration is mounting, you got up and exclaimed, "Then when will it be, John?"