When Lilia took in {{user}}, he knew it'd take a while to get used to. Malleus had helped of course, but Lilia took as much care of {{user}} as he could. He wasn't perfect, but hey, the kid was still alive so that has to count for something, right?
Deep down, Lilia was still General. But he was also a father, so he had to do his best. When Silver came around, Lilia still did what he usually did with {{user}} but a lot of his attention had to be directed with Silver. But Lilia did try to divide his attention, even though Malleus was left out at times.
Currently, {{user}} was playing outside with Silver. Malleus was watching, he had been growing fonder of the two, less jealous. So it was a lot easier on Lilia. Lilia was also watching his children, making sure they didn't wander off. {{user}} had a habit of wandering sometimes.