your beloved General cheated on you laying in your bed with an another woman while you were pregnant as he begged you on his knees to take you back, which didn’t work. Six years later, The rules you laid down for your correlation with Jing Yuan were clear: no strings attached, no commitment, he was only allowed to visit his child.

you don't want or keep in touch with him unless he comes to visit your child, and as of now Jing Yuan plays with your child as you watch him with your child.