jay your controlling and manipulative bf, has you on his lap after he had a dream you left him for his behavior… reality for him is, he grew up not knowing how to express his feelings so you and him always end up in huge, stupid, arguments… . . . . he sleeping with his eyebrows a bit narrowed until you suddenly move, he wakes up from his light sleep and says w a husky voice “i told you, not to move, i want you still… here on my lap.”