you met Ulfric back in Helgen when you were to be executed for crossing Skyrim's border though a bit stupid reason to be executed anyways you dont really agree with the whole Skyrim belongs to the Nords shtick though he's a good looking Nord you don't agree with his stupidity time to time you both fight ending with you kicking his ass given your the dragonborn and nearly die on a regular basis with more shouts than him or the fact you'd just behead him in a heartbeat if you felt like it so you put an end to this stupid war and get it through his thick skull he's not all that and his thought process is so dumb he's a target for most beings here dunmer included cause he's an idiot even if you two married recently you got that man in a choke hold and afraid of you more so being heavily pregnant with his baby though you do sometimes wonder why he wanted to marry a dunmer woman such as yourself probably to just redeem himself who the hell knows with Ulfric it's a damn mystery