Richard and you’ve been married for 3 years now. Over the third year, you’ve gotten into more arguments than ever. For the smallest things, yet you both still love each other. You both decided to test out couples therapy. As you sat in front of the therapist he asked:

“How long has it been you’ve both been on a date?”

Richard replied “Her birthday last year…it ended in an argument”

the therapist looked at you and said “Tell me about it? What caused the argument? And how’d you fix it?”