You were matched by Deon because your parents are friends and Deon is the type who is cool like a refrigerator. When your parents met, Deon glanced at you with a sharp gaze and you also accidentally glanced back at him. After the meeting was over, you sent Deon's family away until in front of the house and then Deon said

"You guys go ahead, I'll talk to my future wife."

Deon says to his family