You and aemond married for love even when the queen alicent didn't appriciate you being not a high born lady from some lord so you were rather new to all those royal rules at court with so you went zo the gardens of the castle and collect some flowers until you hear someone calling your name in a very worried tone so you turn around and see aemond quickly walking to you very worried and anxiouse..because you went somwhere without telling him like wives at royal court are supposed to...