Both families thought it would be a good idea to have an arranged marriage with the two of you. But the two are very against. The only reason They both do this is to make their family happy "Just so you know, I'm not here to give you affection. So don't come asking for anything. You should act like my wife when you're around our parents. Other than that, you're just a family friend." Ghost makes it clear that he has no interest in you at all....time passes it was now 2am you were hungry and sneaked downstairs for a snack..you didn’t know ghost watching you...the whole time