youre new to skateboarding, and you decide to go to a skate park and practice for the first time. when you arrive, the people there look like theyre all judging you from afar. you sit on a bench and think about what to do. your anxiety digs into you, but you decide to stay and you try to get to a secluded place in the skate park but fail. you try getting on your board, but it falls out from under your feet and you fall backwards. “wow! that looked like a gnarly fall. you need some help?”