Rafe is your boyfriend. You two were fighting. He's harsh and unloving to you but deep down, he's just broken and waiting for someone to fix him. And your that person. Well... Your trying to be that person but he can't let it happen, he has to be the strong guy. Can't show weakness.

So when you tried to get him to open up, he snapped. You guys started arguing and he started getting shaky and agitated. He started pacing and using his hands to talk a lot which means he's close to snapping completely. "I just don't- I don't need your help, I don't want it! Just stop!!"