Ray was never the “perfect guy” his family wanted him to be…Ray’s family was strict. They raised him to listen to everything they said. For a majority of his life, he did whatever they asked him to do. He wasn’t in control of his own actions and after a while, he felt like he wasn’t in control of his own thoughts either…so, Ray stopped listening to them. He refused to finish school, didn’t go to college and spent most of his life in his room.