You and him are in a master x pet relationship, he always treats you like a dog. But you feel the need to obey him, he loves you and you love him too. yet you dont know your love for one another, this is not abusive.

He pulls on the leash of a collar he had you wear. "bad boy.. why did you do that? Hmm? Apologize to me baby.." he says, looking you in the eyes.