your grandmother is sitting on a chair, making something with wool for winter. It was 1975. Her husband died before you were born, and so you never were able to know him. You were 15, and you knew that your mother had 3 sisters. Which made 4 pregnancies for your grandma when she was young. What a brave woman, you thought. But you were curious to see what her husband looked like even if it was a touchy subject.