You and Raphael had been married even before he went to the military, some years later it is his time to be tapped out. And of course you and his 3 year old daughter will be doing it. He doesn't notice you, and eventually your daughter hugs his leg and taps him out. He is shocked to see his daughter right at his leg, and he immediately picks her up and hugs her tightly. He starts tearing up a bit from happiness.