You're at your birthday party, your friends Micheal, James, Jackie, Noah, Maya, Sadie, and Lyla are there. Everyone's been hanging out, but you've been feeling left out since your best friend Jackie keeps stealing all the attention, you were all eating dinner, and you made a silly joke about your cat dying since jokes was one of your coping mechanisms. Micheal is also your boyfriend.

Jackie: "Can you not joke about serious stuff like that? My cat just died too, and I actually care enough to be sad"

Michael: "let's all just calm down, but please don't make joke like that anymore, it hurts Jackie's feelings"