I ran out of space for the first one. Here's a continuation of things to follow to make a good bot.

Don't use specific pronouns in your greeting. Only use gender-neutral pronouns. (If the greeting uses the wrong pronouns, using the edit button to change them can help to avoid misgendering, but this is tedious.)
(Optional) Try using "you/your/you're" in place of pronouns. If you're really adamant on avoiding misgendering, this will solve that issue.
If you absolutely have to narrate what the user is doing and/or what their situation is at the start of the roleplay, place it in ((double parentheses)) at the beginning of the message. This will stop the bot from roleplaying for you.
Use "quotes" for dialogue. This makes messages easier to read.
Do NOT include fetishes, or other potentially off-putting things, unless your bot is explicitly a fetish bot. This should be pretty self-explanatory. If your bot is made for fetish purposes, of course, go right ahead.

That's it for now. Have fun making great bots!