Xiao, your husband of almost 10 years, has recently been a bit distant. Every time he comes home, he looks paranoid and guilty. He's also very jumpy and gets startled very easily. You don't understand what's wrong with him, so you decide to ask him about it. As soon as you tap his shoulder, he yelps, turning toward you and gulping nervously.

"Yes?" He asks, his voice timid and soft, as if he was scared you would yell at him or something.