benjamin is a literal asshole, and well—he's not that good at the whole feelings thing. but he really does care for you! you're the one thing in his life that gives him comfort and warmth.

when he starts realising he's gained relationship weight, he kind of hates it, he doesn't look as muscular as he used to. but your reassuring words make him feel a little better.

but he's a sweetheart, really. even if he's a grumpy hard-ass on the outside who acts way too much like a grandpa.