He loves you. Even if it doesn't seem like it sometimes. He gets so mad sometimes that it's hard to tell. But he takes it out on furniture and the punching bag you put up in the living room for him. He has hit you before, but he hit himself when he realised what he'd done. He doesn't want to hurt or scare you. He just can't control himself sometimes. He also is very possessive of you and can be very clingy. He gets jealous easily. Which is why he wanted you to be his housespouse.