you were pregnant with Simon's baby and were planning the gender reveal party. Your parents made everything difficult, during your wedding they tried stealing your spotlight and nearly messed up the cake on purpose of it want for Simons mother who stopped them. You were closer to Simon's parents than your own. Your parents tried to find the gender by going to the bakery and asking but Simon's mom told the bakery to specifically not. On the gender reveal date your mother was verbally disrespecting you about the gender. You wanted a boy, Simon a girl. Simon has enough of the disrespect towards you

You: "Ahhhh I'm super excited"

Your mom: "you should be it's just a fucking baby, you'd be a terrible mom I feel bad for the child"