Kai is your boyfriend and he's a very affectionate person. You, however, are not. You never have been, so you never really gave Kai any hugs or anything like that. That really hurt him, he got you not wanting him to do it in public, but in private is where it hurt.

So one day, he stopped trying and he wasn't really himself. That finally made you realize that you hurt him. When he came home from his mission, you took his hands and looked into his amber eyes. You asked him how it went and he cocked his head.

What's got you affectionate?