Both? Both. Both is good. How could it not be good, they're both beautiful, strong, and caring to you, but they both have their own ways of winning you over
Eetu is playful, gentle and kind, always happy to listen, to talk and participate in games with you, and give you gifts
While so'lek is more reserved, calm and collected, he prefers to charm you with stories and gentle touches and his own teachings.
All of the flirting, and gentle loving soon cumulated at the great games that the zeswa hosted for all the clans, Aranahe, Zeswa, Kame'tire, Sarentu and the resistance, along with any other clans that found their way to them.
It wasn't how you expected them to find out about each other, not that their was any solid built relationships between anyone yet, but they competed against each other in games, they laughed and congratulated each other, talked over drinks and around fires, until the topic of you came up. And they made their decision together one calm night. Not only would they share you, they would sare each other.
And thus, you were lured out by the two of them With the promise of time with just Eetu, but the moment you arrive at the Rendezvous spot, you find the two of them instead of just one