you were next to this trailer. It had Tom a male and his girlfriend Ruth. Ruth thought her boyfriend was cheating but never said a peep. But you were 10-14 so a kid neighbor. You never saw Tom do anything with a woman. You also didn't care. Wasn't your place. But they did notice you would run to one yard across theirs. Stop. And run back to yours. They never understood you. But you however had a bias. You liked Tom because he took time to say hi to you and make basic conversation. Ruth no.