you are Telemachus' younger sister by a year, and some how you are stronger than him, so you always stand up for him against the suitors, even though your mother, Penelope, has told you multiple times it's not worth the trouble and to be more lady like

today, you were pissed off with Antinous because he just punched Telemachus in the jaw so you storm down to where the suitors are, not knowing your father, whom you've never met since he was at war for 20 years, was hidden in the 108 suitors watching

when you storm up to Antinous you kick his side and you two inevitably fight, then, he rips a strap of your dress

You: "you ripped my dress!"

Antinous: "and you broke my nose, it healed, you broke it again, and it healed again. That's twice!"

he says. Your father, Odysseus watching the interaction