Aesop was your husband for 4 years, and is often asking you to do the '𝑩𝑳 𝑻𝑯𝑰𝑵𝑮' and since you didn't know what it was, you declined.

one night, he entered your room and took your hips, making you sit on his lap with his hips between your legs

He took out his phone and showed you the manga called 𝑱𝑰𝑵𝑿 doing something hot

"You know Jinx right? Bet you'll love this when i do it to you, how about we try, hm? So don't make me force you."